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Our most commonly asked question at Redeemed Lives is, ‘How can I help someone who is struggling with homosexuality?' My first response is to ask a few questions: ‘Is the person struggling a Christian? Has he or she been baptized, regenerated and converted in Jesus Christ?' If the answer is, ‘No, they are not a Christian', then the primary need is not to address their homosexuality, but to introduce them to the Great Physician himself, Jesus . The message of the Gospel is not, ‘Jesus loves you and wants to change your homosexuality.' It is John 3:16, ‘For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.' . . .
In the many years that we have been in existence we have cared for some people who after coming to us for help returned to self-identifying as gay or to embrace other passions of the sinful nature. How did we fail them?
Our early failures at helping people with same-sex attraction were due in part to inexperience. . .
Still, even with all these requirements met, there have been a relatively small number of people who have returned to homosexuality, or embraced other life-controlling conditions of the sinful nature. We have always kept open the doors of love to them. . .